on apologies

it isn't an apology if you say, i'm sorry, but...- this is hard! you have to accept 100% responsibility, a number thats not true of almost any interaction. which proves that apology isn't about the rationale of the encounter, but goes into the realm of the unaccountable uncountable moral, one of the harder & obscurer parts of being human, a friend, lover etc!-there lies your ego spattered on the tip of your tongue, growing up is owning up is hard-